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Post by JFSurvivor on Jun 7, 2015 16:32:39 GMT -6
Being rude and mean is NEVER ok. However there will be times when a person is so hurt they just need to vent and if anyone says anything it sounds bad to them so they blow up at that person. This very well may happen on this thread. Please be careful with your words no matter your situation or position. If something does happen where you find yourself being yelled at for giving friendly advice or just saying something nice don't respond, instead, come to a moderator and they will give you further instructions after looking at the situation. There is a difference between abuse and someone venting their hurt and anger. If you are the person who is hurting: please do your best to keep calm when posting. I have had many experiences where I have lashed out on other forums due to my hurt. Please please please be careful with what you say. Also clarify clarify clarify! Before you are about to spit fire from your keyboard ask them "did you really mean *insert what you thought they meant*?" because chances are they didn't. Also I said this once and I will say it again. Please do not give advice unless it is asked for and please if you want advice ask for it. To see a complete list of rules go here: obdrules.weebly.com/
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